tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20043527.post2827432832227528921..comments2023-10-31T20:54:41.691+05:30Comments on Scratchpad of Life: Two Sexes, Two StereotypesSujit Kumar Chakrabartihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11424095559961037990noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20043527.post-55664650311310469502010-02-17T21:58:40.573+05:302010-02-17T21:58:40.573+05:30Yo no sé si lo he dicho ya, pero ... estoy tan con...Yo no sé si lo he dicho ya, pero ... estoy tan contenta de haber encontrado este sitio <a href="http://www.yourkamagra.com/" title="kamagra online" rel="nofollow">kamagra online</a> ... Keep up the good work He leído un montón de blogs sobre una base diaria y en su mayor parte, de personas carecen de sustancia, sino, simplemente quería hacer un comentario breve para decir gran blog. 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Inter species may be, but inter-gender - I think not. <BR/><BR/>You might want to read some posts i wrote under the label dating/mating, which explores some of these myths and stereotypes. Of course, I must admit that they should not be taken too seriously as I exxagerate a lot on my blog ;)<BR/><BR/>http://totaltrauma.blogspot.com/search/label/dating%2FmatingSee Beehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09968385538752541621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20043527.post-74536224383306497542008-02-04T13:14:00.000+05:302008-02-04T13:14:00.000+05:30hi! Sujit, first of all, a sincere congratulations...hi! Sujit, first of all, a sincere congratulations for putting something as complicated as that in as many words! :-)<BR/><BR/>I think I can totally identify with what you've written in the post. On one hand, I do agree that some degree of categorization is near mandatory to avoid the chaos (as you yourself pointed out) but on the other hand, I think being bound inflexibly by these categorizations is something that restricts our vision!<BR/><BR/>We need to KNOW the generalities but should rise above them when the situation demands it! And I am so glad that you wrote that neither men nor women are perfect! It's the relationships that can be! I think this thought deserves special applause! :-) Well written (I admire your capability of structuring the post so well, wish I get some of it soon) :DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20043527.post-72303974044999930122008-02-04T13:09:00.000+05:302008-02-04T13:09:00.000+05:30This comment has been removed by the author.fuse mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08381498662722672650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20043527.post-89321826450099688422008-02-02T20:23:00.000+05:302008-02-02T20:23:00.000+05:30Well written, the key is for us to understand why ...Well written, the key is for us to understand why people often react the way they do. And to also not react in the most instinctual ways ourselves! It is all stereotypes, and actually these stereotypes whatever they may be are all not really watertight, concrete ones ... However some patterns may be discernible and we have to respect them.shamitbagchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03538037501379860935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20043527.post-74996761974446583752008-01-31T22:07:00.000+05:302008-01-31T22:07:00.000+05:30I cannot agree any more..I have met with several f...I cannot agree any more..<BR/>I have met with several female friends who take great pride in their instinctive ridiculing of all males(of course, other than those with whom they are emotionally involved). According to them, all men "need only one thing", and are epitome of immoral beings.<BR/><BR/>Unfortunately, the situation does not look good in the male camp as well. Several of my male friends, especially those who had been little unfortunate regarding relationships, have a very low idea regarding the moral character and intellectual capacity of women in general.<BR/><BR/>By allowing these stereotypes to persist, we actually are allowing our perspectives to be significantly restrained. With a premeditated mindset, we can never be open to friendship or even informal communication with the opposite sex. Hence we will be depriving ourselves from knowing different people and get enriched by their personalities.<BR/><BR/>Treating an individual as a human with less biasness looks to be the biggest challenge at hand. On the top of this we can see several classes of people like chauvinists and feminists fanning this idea even more. But by this we are actually wasting more of our time in this futile struggle. <BR/><BR/>Independence of thought is always encouraged, as long as it is constructive in nature.<BR/>When we are really serious about life, it can be our honest endeavor to disallow these stereotyping beyond just light humor. We have to open our mind by sweeping away all mental blocks.<BR/><BR/>Thanks to Sujit for bringing out this very relevant topic :)SilentSelfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04525286381536737415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20043527.post-16015510931931933622008-01-30T18:40:00.000+05:302008-01-30T18:40:00.000+05:30nicely written!nicely written!Anushahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01975745994012309624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20043527.post-16765161506892797712008-01-29T18:56:00.000+05:302008-01-29T18:56:00.000+05:30Thanks....Badly needed..!!!Thanks....Badly needed..!!!ruSh.Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09420972964787775346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20043527.post-40186249170758451782008-01-29T18:41:00.000+05:302008-01-29T18:41:00.000+05:30Perfect man?! What's that?! Men and women can't be...Perfect man?! What's that?!<BR/> Men and women can't be perfect. Relations can be. If imperfect men and imperfect women work together for those relations. :)<BR/><BR/>Best of luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20043527.post-87265156369740144362008-01-29T17:11:00.000+05:302008-01-29T17:11:00.000+05:30Humans, being humans, will be flawed, forever.... ...Humans, being humans, will be flawed, forever.... the more they try to better themselves, more will be their proximity to perfectness, which we have to accept is next to impossible....<BR/><BR/>Truly said, <I>"Whenever it comes to practical interactions, by fighting our stereotypes honestly, we personally stand to share a much more rewarding and fulfilling relation with our friends of the opposite sex, and our entire species would stand to gain (again, I honestly think so)."</I><BR/><BR/>Taking a Example of my own family.. Currently in the wake of Finding That Perfect Groom for me, My Family would not like to Even consider anything below the Perfect Standards...Economically Sound, Aesthetically Pleasing, Biologically, Technically and Politically Correct...Now i think i really have to wait till Eternity in wait for that Perfect Man...<BR/><BR/>:((<BR/><BR/>We, all need to look beyond our sight.....ruSh.Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09420972964787775346noreply@blogger.com